Haiku #4

Frog croaks in the pond,

a sure sign that Spring arrived.

Water warms; fish swim.

Haiku #3

Day 1 of month 3

and I continue to count

the ways I miss you.

Haiku #2

Spring, dogwood budding

red maple tree starts to leaf

resurrection time.

Haiku #1

Beaded butterfly

half finished in gold and blue

beautifully complete

The Theorem

I have thought about my relationship with Irene a lot since she died.

We met "accidentally" and quickly formed a bond even though at the time she thought the only good man was a dead man. Over twenty-eight plus years that bond was tighter than concrete.

After Irene died I continued to reflect on our relationship, and I came to one conclusion. I decided that God brought us together because He knew that Irene would need me to guide her through this final illness. I firmly believe that one of God's greatest purposes for me was to take care of this precious soul.

And if I believe that, I can only conclude that God exists. Thus, Irene has brought me closer to God even in death.

Reflections on a Bird Feeder

The bird feeders were low this morning and I filled them.

I remember how you loved the birds!

Irene's Service

Irene's celebration of life was a memorable experience thanks to my sister-in-law, Rev. Marilyn Ware, who delivered Irene's message and Scott Stark who produced the video that was played for the prelude to the service. Also, thanks to friends & family that attended.

The Bet

You bet no one would come

to your celebration of life.

I bet the church would be full.

You lost but,

I could not collect

as you are not here.